No. Nonononononnononononono. You do NOT give up on something even if you end up in a slump. You HAVE to keep trying or else... how will you build character anyway? Its not a good move because just think about it. What if you apply for a job but don't get it? Should you give up? No! Same thing here. However, if you were FORCED to do this say by a parent, then you can stop. You should not let anyone force you to do something you don't want to do.
Hope this helps!
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I know you were just trying to be nice and helpful to your friend, but it may have come on to your friend as annoying. Try to lay low on hanging out with her while she spends sometime with her other friend. I know that if only a few days after a fight, I would want nothing to do with the other person. It would only make matters worse if you try to jump to conclusions. Keep in low profile but don't ignore her completely
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Your situation is tough. And I mean REALLY tough. I suggest reassuring her a little, because not only is this move hard on you, its hard on her too. She's probably a bit stressed out, and all she needs is for you to say, "Please, try to stay." or something like that. Tell her that she's an amazing friend and that it wouldn't really be the same without her. All she probably needs is reassuring words and good friends by her side. Hope this helps!
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(This might not go well, because I was sorta frozen when I read your problem)...
My first piece of advice: Don't let it get to you. They probably LOVE it when you get angry, or show any type of negative reaction. It makes them feel better in some twisted way... If THAT doesn't work, try standing up for yourself. Just say "I've had enough. Can you PLEASE stop spreading these rumors about me? I don't like him, and he doesn't like me. Period. I'm done. When you grow up, go ahead and find me." then if THAT doesn't work, find new friends and tell an adult about your old ones. If your new friends ask about the rumor, reassure them, its not true. Be careful who you walk up to though. If you decide to befriend the snooty popular girl, it might not end well. Look for kind faces, and warm personalities. Hope this helps! (and sorry if for last time... I have things in life that can really wind me up... c:
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PS, I know that this advice really isn't the best, so if you need further help, you know where to find me ;)
I SHOULDN'T HAVE SAID IT OK?! IM A LITTLE WOUND UP RIGHT NOW. CUPCAKE AND HOT COCOA I KNOW YOU WERE JUST TRYING TO HELP, BUT IT DIDN'T. I APPRECIATE IT AND NOW I HAVE NO IDEA WHY I'M TYPING IN CAPS. ARGGGG!!!! I NEED TO STOP TYPING IN CAPS. ok, I'm better. So, I appreciate you guys trying to help, but I'm kinda in a mood right now, and it didn't really help. Thank you though. And seed28 its your choice if you leave or not. I can't fight you. Thanks for coming in the first place ;)
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IF this girl is bothering you TOO much, you have to talk to her. Tell her how much it annoys you (NICELY) and ask her to please stop. You did good trying to ignore her, and I understand how it might freak you out a bit. Once you tell her how you feel, she'll probably come clean and tell you why she was staring at you. However, if she acts like she wasn't staring at you, just wait until the next time she does it. Point it out to her. Then she'll understand. HOPE THIS HELPS!
Now, seed28,
For one thing i didn't call YOU stupid. I called the IDEA stupid. I'm giving you advice, however, I can't control how you take it. YOU do what you want with it. I'm just here to guide you. I'm hard on people when they need to snap back into reality (really, parents not loving you as much as a sibling?). It may seem harsh, but look between the lines of my advice. Don't just look at the advice and automatically think it means one thing. ::) You'll run into people like this.
I honestly think you should take it down a notch. Don't fall into peer pressure because you are not quite at the right age to date. Its ok to have a small crush, but really, just play it off. Don't draw attention to yourself by getting embarrassed all the time, but don't ignore it completely. Try to be friends with this guy. If all ends well, maybe you will get the guy of your dreams. Sorry. Not really good advice but its the best I can do :(
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I honestly think you're overreacting. Normally, a normal person would be all sympathetic and stuff, but think about it like this; have they ever TOLD you that they didn't love you? Hurting yourself will just draw attention to yourself and I find that very annoying. Don't overreact like that. If they didn't love you, they would do something about it. You KNOW that they love you more than anything, they just let your younger brother do more things because they know that he will be cranky, and throw tantrums if they didn't. They think you're mature enough to handle it. Besides, younger siblings need a slight more attention than the older sibling does because they don't know as much as you do about common sense and the real world. I suggest trying to let go of that outrageous idea. Hurting yourself is stupid. If you really think that that's the right decision, you're an idiot. A real dumbhead. Sorry I had to end this entry in such a negative note.
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First of all, WOAH WOAH WOAH. WOAH. WOAH. LOVE?! Just how old are you?! A mature person would go out with someone when they're 16. I'm sorry. I'm not good with that stuff, just crushes. The only thing I can suggest is... well... try to play it off. Don't act like nothing happened, but don't act all embarrassed around him. But really.... more appropriate next time....
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I suggest trying to just say it... although the boys that are your age (I KNOW WHO YOU ARE xD) don't seem like the romantic type... so I suggest waiting, and if you still like him, go ahead and tell him that. HOPE THIS HELPS!
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